although i can have my doubts, i do believe everything happens for a reason. every person, every situation, every friendship and relationship, successful or failed, is given to you for a specific purpose. to help you learn to grow, learn about yourself, learn about others, learn to love, and learn to let go. after every struggle is a happy ending. it may not always come immediately and it may not be exactly what you wanted but i've learned that time is all it takes to finally realize it and slowly learn to embrace the changes that come with it. figure out what's really important to you, hold on to it for as long as you can, and never take anything for granted. be grateful for what you have and what you once had. let go of all bitterness and anger and learn to be content and happy with yourself first. learn to accept your defeats gracefully with your head high and your eyes open, instead of with a constant feeling of grief and regret. learn to be independent instead of choosing to lean more on others. only then can you begin to love someone else fully and completely. be strong for yourself and for those who believe in you and will love you unconditionally. remember your mistakes only to make better decisions for when you are given the opportunity of a second chance and remember that the future will always hold more and greater possibilities. suck it easyyyyyyyyyy. xoxo.
